Go hard or Go Harder

You’ve come too far to give up. Stay determined no matter what it looks like right now. Learn, grow and keep moving. You got this. 

Find You before trying to find a Mate

So many times we have relationships that just don’t work out. Either we can’t be faithful, can’t find the “Right One” or sleeping with everyone.  You can’t find what you don’t know. If you don’t know who you are,what makes you happy, sad,mad or indifferent  how do you know who is the right one for you?  Stop searching the world and putting yourself through heartbreak and start spending time with yourself and getting to know the real you. Find you then you can find the right one for you.

Your dreams are worth the Journey

When taking the steps necessary towards your goal you may become a little discourage.  
          Things may not be coming together they way you would like them or at the speed you expected. 
                                         There may even be some road blocks along the way.  
                                Don't allow those obstacles keep you from reaching your dreams.  
                                 The journey will prepare you for the longevity of your dream. 

What are you waiting for

Sometimes we use timing as an excuse to prolong doing what needs to be done.

No more procrastinating.  Stop waiting and get it done.

Greatness is who you are

You need to know what no matter what you have been through or going through you came from greatness. No matter of your past decisions or actions you are greatness.  

Walk in your greatness.

Self Love is the Best Love

Self love is so important.  

Learning to love yourself and what it is that you expect from others is necessary.   

Know yourself, love your self, improve yourself.

Battle of the sexes: Whose fault is it anyways?

So Im tired of it and I'm pretty sure most of you are tired of it as well.  I cant find a good man I cant find a good woman.  Well  Whose fault is it?????? Whose fault is it that you cant find a good man or good woman?  I'll wait.........  Well normally after that statement there is finger pointing  men are no good women are no good blah blah blah blah blah.  Check your self!!!  Men check your selves.  What have you been promoting and supporting and blowing up????? Instagram models reality show stars knifed up to get wifed up women.  and ladies  what have you been promoting supporting and blowing up..  Rapper styled boys mama boys corner boys lazy boys.  So now think about why you cant find  a good mate.  well everyone's out here trying to model themselves after the mainstream.  Underneath all the falsities there are good men there are good women  but because we are too busy trying to be what we think the other wants we aren't being true to ourselves.  So stop trying to be the models we see grabbing men attention You are beautiful and smart and more than meets the eyes.  Men stop trying to act tough and HARD and grow up.  We want a provider(legally)  someone not afraid to show emotions.  (real men do cry) Stop spending your time telling the other what's wrong with them and start working on you and making sure you know what you want and be ready for that man or woman when they arrive in your life, because 9 times out of 10 he or she may already be in your life just waiting for you to get it right.