Mothers its your Day!!!

Mothers day is coming up and I would like to dedicate this blog to all the women who have been influential in my life especially my mom.    Growing up I was the youngest of three.  My mom and dad worked long hours for very little pay but somehow always made  out of .15 cents.  My mom is one of the most hard working determined  faith the size of a mustard gotta love GOD or where would we be woman.  My mom has taught me perseverance  hard work and to trust in God no matter how your circumstances and situations look.  My mom is a cancer survivor and no matter how she feels she is grateful  for everyday to wake up on this side of life.  When I was growing up I felt my mom was so strict at times and soooooo bossy.  Now being a mother myself I understand so much more .  I know now why we went to church all day Sunday bible study on Wednesday childrens church on Friday night and choir rehearsal on Saturday mornings. The discipline that we were taught and the hard work that was instilled within us  shows through to this day.  We were taught that nothing in life is free and if we want the best in life we have to work for it. And we are.  We are all hard workers.           When we were children we may not have shown the appreciation for all the things you did for us whether it was pick up a side job to make sure we had all we needed or be there to make memories with us We appreciated it.  WE appreciate you.  You are an amazing woman of God a fighter a survivor and  hardest working woman I know and I love you  for all you do and did for  me ,my brother and sister.  Sometimes it was rough for us but God brought us through and look at us now.
     I have been fortunate to have some of the greatest women in the world to me in my life from birth to now.  I thank each and everyone of you for helping to mold me into the woman I am today.  Happy mothers day to every mother out there I love you for what you do day in and day out giving life and sustaining life.  Enjoy your day because you definitely deserve it.  Your worth it.

Just A Hot Ghetto Mess!!!

Why why WHY  in 2016 are these guys still sagging.  I dont want to see your butt crack. Half of yall's drawers are dingy, dirty, holey and dont match what you have on so why again are yall showing them.  This aint sexy it aint cute its not even fashionable and when you try to run across the street trying to hold up your pants because they are 2 inches from hitting your ankles You look stupid.So let me get this straight you pull your pants up so that they will fall back down under your butt????  and why so you can walk with a huge gap inbetween hour legs trying to keep them from hitting the ground .  Or so you loo like you really got it like that........Really??????

Whats wrong with wearing your pants around your waist and not under your butt.    Public Service Announcement  We dont care what type color or pattern your drawers are Pull up your DAMN PANTS MAN!!!!!!!  Im tired of the skid marks that are being paraded around here like its a new pattern  with matching holes.  Wash your tail put on some clean drawers and pull up your pants.  Act like you know and that sagging isn't a fad it was started due to prison life and I am sure none of yall really want to go there to see how it really is up in there.  So pull up your pants young men and some young ladies and put a belt on that proper fits your body.  Look presentable and not resentable.

This really needs to be said

I'm so done with this I am just going to jump right into it. PUBLIC ANNOUNCEMENT: Ladies STOP GOING OUTSIDE WITH DOO RAGS, BONNETS AND ANYTHING ELSE THAT WAS MEANT FOR JUST BEDTIME and or IN YOUR HOUSE INCLUDING PAJAMAS AND HOUSE SHOES(GET THAT HOUSE SHOES ARE ONLY FOR THE HOUSE,)

Its like an epidemic out here the warmer it gets the worst it gets.  I went to pick up my sons from school today and as Im leaving here's a young lady in a bonnet  yes one of those little house on the praire looking hair wraps. It doesnt matter that they make them in assorted colors and prints.  Its still ridiculous to wear outside your house.Why Ladies WHY!!!!!!!!!  This looks so wrong so bad and so tacky.  Believe me I understand in a rush you dont want to take your hair down....... but really your kids school, WalMART,  the grocery store???????  Anywhere but your house is unacceptable.Im about comfort just like the next person but Why in the entire HELL would you wear your pajamas any further than you mailbox I mean come on you are no longer trying to be comfortable you just lazy.  Either you too lazy to find outside clothes which means you didnt wash you nasty behind(Washing the crust out your eyes doesnt count as washing your body?) or you too lazy to wash clothes.  Either way its just wrong.  Ladies there is nothing wrong with just putting your hair in a ponytail(if you have enough  dont make a struggle tail  where your struggling to get your hair to meet in the middle of your head)  or take a comb to it to make it look decent to walk out your door.  Lets take time to make our selves look nice. Show you take pride inyourself everyday and not  just when its time to go club.  Be presentable and not embarrassing to the entire culture.